Keeping Our Focus on Christ

Here’s a little experiment you can try this coming Sunday at church. It’s a little experiment involving facial recognition. As we walk around inside the church and make our way to our classrooms or to the sanctuary before the service, we pass by dozens of people, most of whom we recognize even if we don’t know them by name. Generally, as a human figure enters our peripheral field of vision, we automatically shift our focus to that person’s face and look directly at them. It’s a reflex action. That’s how God programmed our brains. Even if that person turns out to be a total stranger, we know that he or she is someone we don’t recognize.

So here’s the experiment: When walking through church or in some other setting where you’re in the midst of people you know, and when someone enters your peripheral field, do not allow the reflex action to take over. Instead, force yourself to shift your focus off to one side as though you were looking at something a couple of feet off to one side over that person’s shoulder. Keep that person in your peripheral field but do not look at him (or her) directly. See if you’re able to recognize who it is. It only takes a few seconds. Then go ahead and make eye contact. If that person is someone familiar to you, odds are, it will surprise you when realize you did not immediately recognize who it was until you looked directly at that individual. With few exceptions, in order to recognize someone when we come into contact with them, we have to look directly at them.

When the disciples realized Jesus was walking to them on the surface of the water, Peter called out to Him and said, “Lord, if it is you, command me to come to you on the water“. Jesus said, “Come.” So Peter got out of the boat and walked on the water and came to Jesus, But when he saw the wind, he was afraid, and beginning to sink he cried out, “Lord, save me!”

Peter got distracted. He took his eyes off of Jesus for just a moment and began to sink. I don’t think Peter turned his head completely around. Maybe he did, maybe he didn’t. But all it took for him to begin sinking was to shift his focus away from Jesus, however much or little that may have been. Maybe Jesus was still in his peripheral field, but Peter’s focus was on the wind. It’s an important lesson for us and one that I had to learn recently.

Over the course of the past several months, actually the past couple of years to be honest, there have been distractions that caused me to shift my focus ever so slightly away from Jesus. I was looking toward Him but not directly at Him. It’s as though I was looking over his shoulder.

This is the most important lesson I took away from that experience: We cannot effectively serve God if we only have Jesus in our peripheral field. Our focus must be directly on Him. Remember the experiment? If we allow our focus to shift away from Christ, even slightly, we may not recognize Him, which is to say we may not recognize His miracles, or His answers to our prayers. We may not recognize His work in our lives. We may not recognize a calling to go help someone or to share the gospel. We may not recognize a need. We may not recognize when are called to meet that need. That’s what can happen when Jesus is in your peripheral field of vision, but your focus is not centered on Him.

We keep our focus centered on Christ by doing His will, even if it’s in conflict with our will. We keep our focus centered on Christ by seeking His will in prayer and accepting the answer, whether it’s yes or no. And those times when the answer is no, we keep our focus centered on Christ by thanking Him when He says no to our prayers, by giving Him praise when He closes a door we wanted opened. That’s a big one for me because He has recently told me no, and He has recently closed some doors that I wanted opened, and in the aftermath, I can’t begin to thank Him enough! I am absolutely ecstatic that the answer was no! He saved me from making a major mistake in life at a time when we can least afford to make those kinds of mistakes. And that is also how we keep our focus centered on Christ, by recognizing that our ways are not His ways, and that He truly does know best!


Great Testimonies Live On

When I was in high school in the mid 1970s, I worked after school at a Texaco gas station in the town where my wife and I grew up, Moulton, Texas. Moulton is a small farm town about halfway between San Antonio and Houston, situated roughly ten miles south of interstate 10. The population was, and still is to this day, about 950 people.

My job at the Texaco station was to pump gas and fix flat tires. Of course, that was back in the day when there were such things as full service gas stations where all you had to do was sit in your car while someone filled the tank for you and offered to check the tires and oil. But selling gas and changing oil and fixing flat tires was only part of the business. Moulton is located in a region of south Texas that’s made up mostly of German and Czechoslovakian descendants. Most of the locals still spoke German and Czech and had heavy German and Czech accents. They still clung to a lot of central and eastern European traditions and one of the more notable traditions, if you can call it that, was their fondness……for beer! So on one side of the Texaco station was the lube rack and the bay where we fixed flats, and on the other side was a bar. In that part of south Texas, in the heart of German and Czech country, that was not an unusual sight at all. The gas station side where I worked closed at 8:00 p.m. The bar stayed open till midnight. I just did my job and went home.

I worked at the Texaco from my sophomore year in high school until I graduated. It was hard not to notice the things that went on in the bar. And it was also not hard to notice who the regulars were and one of those regulars was a middle aged woman named Judy. For the life of me I cannot recall her last name. At that time she was probably in her early to mid forties and it was obvious she had lived a rough and hard life. But it was also plain to see that she chose that life. She was brash. She was loud. She drank as hard as any man and could out cuss most men. She was quite proud of the way she lived and the more she drank, the more brash and loud she would become. She always had a smile on her face. It was more of a smirk actually, that I’m-living-my-life-my-way smirk that often accompanies pride and arrogance. And speaking of things that weren’t hard to notice, it wasn’t hard to notice that she liked to hang on the men and didn’t always leave with the same man. It was a bar. That kind of stuff was routine.

That was in the mid 70s. Fast forward to around 1984. My parents had just bought a small café in Moulton. My wife and I helped out in the café and one afternoon I walked in the front door and noticed a group of about six or seven people sitting at one of the tables up front. My mother was sitting with them and they were all talking and drinking coffee. I looked around and greeted everyone and lo and behold, there sat Judy, the same Judy who used to hang out in the bar at the Texaco station. She was sitting there drinking coffee, but she wasn’t nearly as loud and brash as I remembered her. She still had a smile on her face, but it was not same. There was no pride and arrogance in her smile. There was something different. She was having a conversation with my mother and I don’t recall the topic of the conversation, nor do I recall what my mother said to her, but I do recall her response to whatever it was that my mother said to her. She said, “My life changed so much…….when I accepted Jesus Christ as my Savior!” And she went on to describe the peace that her relationship with Jesus had given her. The smile of arrogance had been transformed into a smile that reflected her love for Christ. About three or four years later, we heard that Judy had been diagnosed with cancer and died shortly thereafter.

Like I said, I cannot remember her last name now, it’s been so many years. But our Lord and Savior knows who she is. That’s all that matters really. And she’s at home with the Lord now. She had a great testimony. It’s a shame that she can no longer share that testimony with anyone who’s alive today……or can she? The more I think about it, I believe God put me in a time and place where I could see the way she lived before she met Jesus Christ. I was a witness to the way she lived back in the 70s. And I also got to see the new person Judy became after she accepted Christ! Looking back, I have no doubt that her transformation was genuine!

We often hear testimonies from people who tell us what they were like and how they lived before they came to know Christ and how their lives changed after accepting Christ, but we usually only hear those testimonies from someone after they’ve given their lives to Christ and have no firsthand knowledge of who they were or how they lived before Christ. And that’s perfectly okay. But God gave me the privilege of witnessing Judy’s transformation first hand. I worked at that gas station next to the bar. I was there in my parent’s restaurant when she shared how Jesus had changed her life. She is no longer with us so I’m telling her story today. She was as rough and crude as anyone I’ve ever seen. But she was transformed by the power of God and was living proof that God can change anyone!

“Very truly I tell you, whoever hears my word and believes him who sent me has eternal life and will not be judged but has crossed over from death to life.” John 5:24

The Barter System

In our modern, free enterprise economy, the price of a product is determined by a number of factors. There are costs associated with research and development, labor, cost of raw materials to manufacture the product, marketing and sales, and that’s just to name a few. Once a product has been developed and manufactured, the price has been set, and it’s finally offered for sale, the consumer exchanges money for whatever it is that’s being sold. In simple terms, we exchange money for goods.

But there is another form of trade that has become popular among certain groups of people in recent years known as the barter system. The barter system is different in one aspect. The goods being offered for trade are generally not brand new. With some exceptions, trading (or bartering) usually involves used goods. And when two parties engage in a bartering transaction, the monetary value of the goods being exchanged may or may not be taken into account. In the barter system, it’s more of – “You have something I want. And I have something you want. Let’s trade” And sometimes, the trade involves bartering goods for certain types of services, like trading a flat screen TV for car repair.

Like I said, you don’t always consider the monetary value of an item in a barter transaction. I recently engaged in a barter transaction in which the item I gave up was worth more monetarily than what I received in return. But the other guy had something I wanted and I had something he wanted. So we made the deal.

Of course, all of this is within reason. No one’s going to give up a yacht for a riding mower. With that said, however, think about the value of what God gave up to secure our eternal souls. Billy Graham once said, “The blood of Jesus was God’s own life.” In keeping with the spirit and tone of this message, it was the ultimate one-sided barter transaction. God brought His own Son to the cross at Calvary. All we bring to the table is the debt of sin. What can we possibly give God in exchange for what He gave for us? But God made the exchange. Our sin debt cancelled – exchanged for the life of Jesus at the cross.

In 1 Corinthians 6 verses 19 and 20, God’s word tells us, You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. And I love how this is stated in the New Living Translation – God bought you with a high price.

We bring nothing to the table but our sin, yet God wants us. We bring nothing to the table but our brokenness. We have nothing that God could ever want or need, yet God was willing to pay the price. All He asks is that we believe in His son Jesus and put our trust in Him, that we make Him Lord of our lives. He asks us to have faith in the finished work of Jesus Christ on the cross. Faith, as Peter wrote, is more precious than gold because gold will one day perish. But what we get in return for placing our faith in our Lord Jesus Christ is eternal. It seems like such a one sided transaction, but God, because of His immeasurable love, was willing to do it anyway!

Grace, and Why We Need It

Ephesians 2:4-9
But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved. And God raised us up with Christ and seated us with him in the heavenly realms in Christ Jesus, in order that in the coming ages he might show the incomparable riches of his grace, expressed in his kindness to us in Christ Jesus. For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast.

Those few verses from Ephesians chapter 2 sum up the message of the gospel in a nutshell. Every individual who is alive and all who came before, as well as those who are yet to be born, are condemned because of sin. That passage reminds us of our sinful nature. It’s a reminder of our need for a Savior and that there is only one Savior, Jesus Christ. And that passage makes it very clear that our salvation is a gift from God. Remember, this was written under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit by the Apostle Paul, who, in his letter to Timothy, described himself as the “worst of sinners”. He better than anyone understood the meaning of grace and he knew full well that grace is a gift that only God can give because that truth was played out in his life so dramatically on the Damascus Road.

The act of giving a gift is a two step process. First, a gift must be offered. Second, it must be accepted. God’s offer is the gift of grace, the forgiveness of sins for anyone who professes faith in Christ. The gift of grace then, is accepted by our profession of faith.

Before I go any further I want to clarify something. There are always those who ask “What about babies and little children who die before they’re old enough to grasp the meaning of the gospel?” Let me assure you, infants and little children who die before they are old enough to understand the gospel message are in Heaven and are in the presence of Jesus Christ. I have no doubt about that. Go back and read that line in Ephesians again: “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith – and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God.” Infants and small children who die at a young age.are saved by grace. If that were not true, then grace would not be grace. Mercy would not be mercy.

For many years, in fact, for much of my life, I lived under the notion that being a good person was good enough to get me into Heaven. I talked about my belief in God, not very often I might add, but what little I did say about God was little more than lip service and since I didn’t start reading and studying God’s word until I was almost 50 years old, I didn’t have whole lot to say about God anyway because I really didn’t know that much about Him. I bought into the lie that good enough was…good enough. Plus, I did what many people do: I compared myself to some really bad people. I figured since I had never committed any heinous crimes, never abused my wife and kids, never did any hardcore drugs, and so on and so on, well….that was….good enough.

Here’s the problem with that sort of thinking and I praise God for opening my eyes to the truth: God doesn’t compare us to other people. He does not compare us to the murderer on death row. He does not compare us to that person who has no conscience when it comes to stealing. He does not compare us to the adulterer who habitually cheats on his or her spouse. God uses a much higher standard. We are not compared to other flawed human beings. We are compared to the standards of God as lived in the life of Jesus Christ, and when we are compared to such a holy and righteous standard, we all fall short.

As Christians, we know Romans 3:23 by heart, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Paul expressed that same truth in Ephesians 2. We are all dead in our transgressions…..all have sinned. And that should be a warning for anyone who believes, like I once did, that all you have to do is be better than “bad people”. It may be true that when you’re being chased by a bear, you only have to outrun the slowest camper! But no one escapes from the punishment for their sin. No one can outrun the fate that awaits them if they die without Christ.

So yes, the words of Romans 3:23 are a warning, to be sure. But notice that in both Romans chapter 3 and in the passage from Ephesians 2, Paul followed his “warning” with a message of hope. We all know Romans 3:23, but the message of hope is in verses that follow – “…and all are justified freely by his grace through the redemption that came by Christ Jesus. God presented Christ as a sacrifice of atonement through the shedding of his blood – to be received by faith.

That is the message of hope. We need a Savior. We have a Savior in Jesus Christ. There is nothing we can do to earn God’s grace. And the good news is, there is nothing we need to do because grace is the gift of God. Like I said, that’s the message of the gospel in a nutshell.

The Pain of Separation

For the past several months, I’ve taken a bit of sabbatical from writing these weekly devotionals. My wife and I had a lot going on.  The whole process of selling our home in Keller, Texas (which took way longer than we thought it would) and buying a home here in Florida was very time consuming and distracting….to say the least. And there were some other things going on that I don’t need to mention here. But now that we’re getting settled in, the Lord has laid it on my heart to start writing and sending out these weekly messages again. And of course, it should always be our desire to obey the Lord.

As part of the process of getting settled in, my wife and granddaughter and I joined First Baptist Church of Palm Coast [Florida] Sunday the 22nd of July by transfer of letter. We’re still in the process of looking at Bible classes, but we have a found a church home.

As for the title of this devotional – The Pain of Separation – I recently transferred to a new position within Southwest Airlines, moving from Dallas to Orlando. Although I believe God had his hand on this transfer, since the door was opened at just the right time, it still came with its own set of challenges. You see, our home in Palm Coast is exactly 100 miles from my job at Orlando’s airport. Because of the distance involved, I had to find a room to rent in Orlando during the week when I have to work. It has not been fun. In fact, being away from my family four days a week is downright painful. It’s not something I’m accustomed to and it’s more difficult when you’re older.

However, the separation from my family during the week has given me some insight into what it must be like for military personal who are deployed overseas for long periods of time. At least I get to go home at the end of the week. It’s also given me a glimpse of another type of separation, one that no one should want to experience, and that would be the separation that a person will experience for all eternity should he or she die without accepting Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. If being away from family for a few days a week is this difficult, then I shudder to think about what it would mean to be separated from God for all eternity.

Jesus made it very clear in the parables that are recorded in Matthew chapter 13 – The Parable of the Weeds, The Parable of the Net – that a time is coming when wicked and sinful people will be taken away.

“Matthew 13:40-43 – As the weeds are pulled up and burned in the fire, so it will be at the end of the age. The Son of Man will send out His angels and they will weed out of his kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. they will throw them into the blazing furnace, where there will be gnashing of teeth. Then the righteous will shine like the sun in the kingdom of their Father.”

Those who have rejected Jesus Christ will be separated from those who have accepted His grace. Jesus made that very clear. And they will be separated from God forever. Worse yet, they will know it did not have to be that way. When an unbeliever dies, they will know that at that moment that everything written about Jesus Christ in the Bible is absolutely true. They will know because the Bible says they will know. I believe Paul makes this very clear in 1 Corinthians 13 verse 12 where he wrote, “Now, I know in part; then I shall know fully…” The believer will know the joy of being in the presence of Christ forever. The unbeliever will know nothing but the pain of separation from God for all eternity, a pain that will be made all the worse by knowing that their fate could have been avoided. And that is a pain that no one should want to experience. We don’t want our loved ones or our neighbors to experience the eternal pain of being separated from God for all eternity. That is why we must never, never stop sharing the love of Christ. There is too much at stake. The pain of eternal separation from God is too great for us not to share His offer of grace.

Times of Abundance, Times of Famine

James chapter 1
Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.
If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.
Let the lowly brother boast in his exaltation, and the rich in his humiliation, because like a flower of the grass he will pass away. For the sun rises with its scorching heat and withers the grass; its flower falls, and its beauty perishes. So also will the rich man fade away in the midst of his pursuits.
Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.

Conventional Christian teaching tells us that we go through seasons of trials and difficulty for any number of reasons. First, we’re told that times of hardship are times of testing. That’s what God’s word tells us in that passage from the book of James. We’re told to be joyful when God tests us and that is not an easy thing to do. Being joyful is the furthest thing from my mind when times get tough. Hard times do test our faith. We have to keep mind that this is why God allows testing in the first place. Testing produces steadfastness, or in other words, it teaches us patient endurance. This is echoed in Romans chapter five where Paul wrote that “suffering produces perseverance, perseverance produces character, and character produces hope”. And Paul was speaking of the divine hope that we have in God because of the love He has poured into our hearts by the power of the Holy Spirit.

Tough times also teach us to lean on God and to trust in Him and only Him. – Let your unfailing love surround us, Lord, for our hope is in you alone. Psalm 33 – Unfortunately, we often turn to God only after all else has failed. Or we don’t lean on God quite as much when everything is going great – as we do when the bottom falls out. The life of Job teaches us that we may enjoy blessings one moment, and then have to endure suffering and loss the next. We all know the story. God permitted Satan to take all that Job had; his children, his possessions, everything. After all was gone, Job simply said, “The Lord gave, and Lord has taken away, Blessed be the name of the Lord.”

Job’s story is a riches to rags story. And in the end it was riches to rags and back to riches again. And there’s a lesson there for us. Job was blessed by God most of his life before he suffered the loss of his children and all his possessions. So Job’s story was not the story of man who lost it all and ultimately turned to God because he was already a faithful man of God. It was actually the time of blessing that prepared him for the difficulties that fell on him. The times of abundance prepared Job for his times of famine.

We’re good at blessing the name of God when he gives, but not so much when He takes away. The time of blessing prepared Job for the time of loss. And after he lost everything, Job’s life got even worse because God then permitted Satan to destroy Job’s health. It seemed that even his own wife turned against him when she to Job, “Why don’t you just curse God and die?” But he was unshaken. He simply replied, “Should we accept only good things from the hand of God and never anything bad?”

Job’s faith was not built on the foundation of worldly wealth. As Satan learned, Job was not a man of God because God had blessed him with prosperity. Job was a man of God because he understood where his prosperity came from and most importantly, he understood that God owns it all. It was God’s to give and God’s to take and Job knew that and accepted it.

Nearly all of us have, or will enjoy times of abundance followed by times of famine at some point. That is to say, there will be times of blessing, and times of testing. Job understood this though he was never told exactly why God allowed Satan to do what he did. But Job knew that we praise God in good times and bad and in fact, the Bible tells us to use those times of abundance to prepare for times of famine. This is illustrated in the book of Genesis through the life of Joseph.

After his trials and after he had risen to become second in command in the land of Egypt, Joseph was told by God that the land would enjoy seven years of fruitful harvests followed by seven years of famine. Joseph did not curse God for bringing the famine. He did not ask “Why would a loving God allow such a severe famine to happen?” He did none of that. He simply obeyed God and used the time of abundance to prepare for the time of famine. God gives and God takes away, and there is no guarantee that God will ever give it back. Job didn’t know God would eventually restore his fortunes. And we’re never given such a guarantee in spite of what the prosperity gospel preachers have to say. In fact, the health and wealth preachers have it backwards. They claim that the famines prepare us for abundance. But as we see in the lives of Job and Joseph, quite the opposite is true. We must use the times of abundance to prepare for the inevitable famines.

I mentioned that there is no guarantee that God will ever restore us as He did Job. In this world, and in this life, I believe that to be a true statement. We may very well be left to experience times of famine for the rest of our lives. But as believers in Jesus Christ, we have hope beyond this world and beyond this life. Jesus told the story of a rich man whose name we’re never told and a beggar named Lazarus. We’re all familiar with that account in the gospel of Luke. Lazarus suffered a lifetime of misery but we can conclude that at some point in his life, he had placed his trust and hope in God. After a lifetime of famine, he received his “abundance” by way of eternal life in the presence of the Lord. I can’t promise many things but I can promise this: Eternity in the presence of our Lord will be far greater than all the riches and wealth and abundance this world has to offer. When we’re with Jesus Christ for all eternity, we’ll have all we’ll ever need.

In My Seat

I had the opportunity to hear this man speak at our church in person a few months ago. It’s an amazing testimony. On this side of eternity, we cannot comprehend the ways of God nor can we fully understand certain things happen the way they do. All we can do is recognize when God has given us a gift, and make the most of it. It’s most unfortunate that there were some very nasty comments directed at this gentleman on his YouTube site. That’s why I moderate all replies and I will simply delete those kinds of comments. I’ve met the man. He is the real deal. He himself does not understand why things unfolded the way they did. But he is making the most of what God gave him. I could stand to make some improvements in that area.


The Purpose of His Miracles

In chapter 2 of his gospel, John continues the record of the early days of Jesus’ earthly ministry, an account that began in chapter 1 where John the Baptist introduced Jesus and baptized Him, and where Jesus called his first disciples.
At the beginning of John chapter 2, Jesus has called at least five of the twelve disciples, but He has not begun to teach just yet. He has not begun instructing them in the ways of the gospel. They’ve only been with Jesus for about 48 hours by the time we get to the wedding feast at Cana.
Jesus has not yet performed any miracles at this point, at least none that we know of. This would be the first. It should be noted that John never uses the word ‘miracle’. He calls them signs. According to most commentators, John was being careful not to cast a spotlight on the actual miracles – or signs – themselves. Instead, John’s intent was to direct our focus toward their divine purpose.
Before Jesus turned the water to wine, He and His mother Mary had an interesting exchange.When the wine ran out, Mary said to Him, “They have no wine.” And He responded in verse 4, “Woman, what does this have to do with me? My hour has not yet come.”  His mother said to the servants, “Do whatever he tells you.”

It seems that Mary was more than just another guest. This may have been a family member who was getting married. It may have been a close friend who asked her to take care of all the arrangements for this feast. So the request she made of Jesus was not an unreasonable request.There are two schools of thought here. This could have been an instance of a mother asking her oldest son to quietly step out and go procure more wine. It’s also possible (and probable) that she knew Jesus’ abilities and was asking for a miraculous solution to this problem.
The response from Jesus indicates that she probably was asking for some sort of supernatural intervention. The host of this feast was in real trouble. In the Jewish culture of that day, running out of wine during a wedding feast was a very serious social blunder. The host could actually be sued by the guests for not properly providing for them. 
So she called on her son for help, but He gave what seems like a very strange response.  He actually reprimanded her, ever so gently mind you, for calling His attention to this problem.
On the surface, it seems disrespectful for Him to have called his own mother “woman”. But I think it’s safe to say that He did so with the utmost respect, and with a kindness and gentleness that was evident in his voice. When we hear someone address a female as “woman” today, it’s often spoken in a very disrespectful and undignified tone. I don’t believe Jesus was being disrespectful toward his mother at all because that was forbidden under the Mosaic law. And Jesus never sinned, He never broke one single law. Nonetheless, Jesus was asserting His authority. As man, Jesus was the Son David. He was the SON of Mary. But as God, He is Lord over David and Lord over Mary as well. So He gave her a very gentle reprimand which was intended to remind her of His authority. And the reason he gave was, “My hour has not yet come.”

Everything Jesus did, and everything that was done to Him had a fixed time. He was born at a predetermined time. He began His ministry at a predetermined time. He was crucified at a predetermined time. He rose from the grave at a predetermined time. He ascended into Heaven at a predetermined time. He’s coming back at a predetermined time.
In this instance, the time had not yet come for Jesus to begin performing miracles and signs……openly and publicly. That’s what He meant when He said, “My hour has not yet come.”

Mary took the reprimand submissively and did not respond directly to what Jesus said to her. Instead, she turned to the servants and instructed them to do whatever He told them to do.
It might seem that she ignored what Jesus had just said to her but in reality, she did not. She was in fact, placing her full trust in Jesus because she had no idea what He planned to do, or if He planned to do anything. He very well could have said, “Let everyone drink water for the rest of the evening.”
But He instructed the servants to fill the water jars to the brim. And without a word being said, without waving his arms or any physical gesture, He changed the water to wine.
This is from a website called the “Biblical Jesus”:
John’s gospel clues us in to the divine purpose for Jesus’ miracles. After narrating the miracle of the wine at the wedding feast, the apostle adds, “This beginning of signs Jesus did in Cana of Galilee, and manifested His glory; and His disciples believed in Him” (John 2:11). This verse gives us three purposes for the miracles Jesus did: 1) that they are signs; 2) that they “manifested His glory”; and 3) they helped His disciples to believe in Him. They did attract attention to Him, but ultimately, God had deeper, spiritual purposes for them.
The Pharisees often asked Jesus for a sign that would prove to them that He was the Messiah. He never gave them a sign except when He told them, “The only sign this wicked and adulterous generation will be given is the sign of the prophet Jonah.” During His trial the night before He was crucified, Jesus was sent to Herod  who, according to the scripture, wanted to see Him perform some sort of miracle. But never once did Jesus perform miracles for entertainment purposes. His miracles were not meant to be parlor tricks. His signs and miracles were intended for one purpose: To help people believe in order to advance the gospel and bring glory to God. 
Only a handful of people knew what Jesus had done. Though His hour for performing miracles openly and publicly had not yet come, He foresaw how this one very discreet miracle would affirm his identity in the eyes of those who had just begun following Him a couple of days earlier. They may have been second guessing their decision to leave everything and everyone behind at the spur of the moment to follow a man they scarcely knew. That would be a perfectly normal human reaction. But this miracle, this sign that Jesus performed at the wedding feast at Cana accomplished the same purpose his highly visible and more public miracles would accomplish later: It affirmed that Jesus was no ordinary man. It confirmed that He was indeed…..God who came to us in human flesh.


The Suffering of Jesus

A couple of years ago, a certain individual told me that a Christian should always be happy and joyful, regardless of any difficulty or hardship we’re faced with. That was his interpretation of that passage in Philippians chapter 4 where the Apostle Paul wrote about being content regardless of his circumstances. Yes, of course, we do have reason to be joyful because of our hope in Jesus Christ. We all know that. That’s not in dispute at all. But according to his interpretation, we as Christians are supposed to paint fake, plastic, phony smiles on our faces and never let on that we’re in pain. We’re never to let on that we’re hurting. We’re never to let on that we’re dealing with trials and hardship. It made me wonder if he truly knows our Lord Jesus as well as he claims. 
In His humanity, Jesus suffered many sorrows. Isaiah called Jesus a man of sorrows. When Jesus told His disciples that He must suffer many things, it wasn’t just the cross He was referring to. Jesus suffered grief, anguish, panic, anxiety, frustration, anger, pain. In fact, I believe the range of emotions and pain and suffering Jesus went through were necessary and here is why I believe that. Even though He is God and Jesus completely understands the troubles and sorrows we face in life – God often allows suffering as a means of testing and to strengthen our faith – there is something about having experienced suffering and sorrow personally, while walking the earth in the flesh, that draws us much closer to Him. It makes our relationship with Jesus much more personal. God came down from Heaven in the person of Jesus Christ and endured suffering, not as one watching from a distance, but as one of us. Now in that statement, I’m not talking about His suffering on the cross. That was His and His alone to bear. I’m talking about His life prior to the cross. 
Someone might say, “Jesus was never married, so He never experienced the pain of a cheating spouse, or a divorce.” In the Bible, His church is referred to as the “Bride of Christ”. That’s us. That’s you and me. That’s all believers. So wouldn’t it stand to reason that every time we sin, we’re cheating on Him. In the Old Testament God often compared Israel’s sins to adultery. In the New Testament, it’s called “grieving the Holy Spirit.” So don’t tell me He doesn’t understand the pain of betrayal. He understands it in a spiritual sense every time one of us sins. He understood it the night Judas betrayed Him in the garden. 
Again, someone might try to say, “But Jesus never had to deal with drug addiction or alcoholism.” How tempting do you think it was for Jesus not to indulge in and to partake in everything He created? The Bible says He was tempted in every way as we are, yet without sin. After 40 days in the desert, Satan tried to tempt Jesus to turn a rock into a piece of bread. Jesus had not eaten in all that time. Do you really think the lure of drugs and alcohol are more powerful than the hunger Jesus must have felt in that moment? 
“Since Jesus never married, He never had children, so He never experience grief over the death of a child.” Every single person who has ever lived, is alive now, and has yet to be born is a child of God. Yet the majority of mankind will reject Jesus and forever be separated from Him, and will spend eternity in Hell. In the book of Ezekiel, the word tells us that God takes no pleasure in the death of the wicked. God will mourn over those who choose to spend eternity apart from His love. He will mourn the loss of the children who rejected Him.  
“How can He know what it’s like to lose everything? How can He know what it’s like to suffer financial ruin? How can He understand the loss of a job or a home?”
The Bible tells that the earth and everything in it belongs to God. All the gold and silver, all the cattle on a thousand hills are His. It’s all His, yet Jesus gave it all up when He became man. He never once tried to lay claim to anything that rightfully belonged to Him while He was on earth. In fact, He pointed out that foxes have dens, and birds have nests, but the Son of Man did not even have a place to lay His head. 
“Does Jesus truly understand our frustrations when we can’t find a decent job, or when it takes forever to recover from an illness or injury? Does He understand our frustration when we have to deal with a  difficult child? Does He even understand what it is to be frustrated?” There were times when it seemed that His disciples could not grasp even the most basic principles of the Gospel. He was trying to prepare them to be world changers and they argued over which of them was the greatest. So yes, I would say it frustrated Him. When He was asleep in a boat in the middle of a storm, his followers woke Him up in a state of panic. What did He say after he calmed the storm? “You of little faith. Why are you so afraid?” When some of His disciples were unable to drive a demon from a young boy and Jesus had to step in do it for them, He said, “You unbelieving and perverse generation. How much longer must I stay with you. How long shall I put up with you?” Frustration is a human emotion, and that was part of His human experience.
“Did Jesus ever experience panic or anxiety?” Luke wrote that on the night He was betrayed, He was in great anguish, He prayed more earnestly, and His sweat was like drops of blood. Judge for yourselves. 
He experienced anger when He drove out the money changers and those who were selling sheep and cattle in the Temple. He experienced grief when Lazarus died. The Bible does not say specifically that He ever had women approach him with intentions that were – how can I put this – carnal. But again,we’re told He was tempted in every way as we are, yet without sin. So we can infer from that passage in Hebrews that He was tempted……in that way……at some point in His life. And yet…without sin. 
That same passage in chapter 4 of Hebrews tells us that because Jesus experienced the same life experiences and temptations as us, yet without sin, we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with us. I mentioned earlier that it was necessary for Him to suffer these things, but it wasn’t because God had something He needed to learn through those experiences. There’s nothing God needs to learn. Jesus went through what He went through for our sake, to help us understand that we worship a God who can relate to our troubles in a very personal way. He knows our troubles and sorrows because He is the all knowing God, of course, but we can take comfort in the knowledge that He knows our troubles and sorrows……….because He also lived it. 

The story of Hien Pham, as told by Ravi Zacharias

From a speech by Ravi Zacharias:

During my ministry in Vietnam in 1971, one of my interpreters who traveled with me was Hien Pham, an energetic, devoted young Christian who had worked very closely as a translator with the American military forces, purely as a civilian, with no official or military responsibilities. He just knew English so well that he was able to be of immense help to them in their linguistic struggles.

By virtue of that same strength he also worked with the missionaries. He and I traveled the length of the country and became very close friends before I bade him good-bye when I left Vietnam to return home. We were both very young, and neither of us knew if our paths would cross again. Within four years, Vietnam fell, and Hien’s fate was unknown.

Seventeen years later, in 1988, I received a surprise telephone call than began with, “Brother Ravi?” Immediately I recognized Hien’s voice. We got caught up with our pleasantries, then I asked him how he had managed to get out of Vietnam and come to the United States. I was not prepared for the story I was about to hear.

Shortly after Vietnam fell to the Communists, Hien was arrested. Accused of aiding and abetting the Americans he was in and out of prison for several years. During one long jail term, the sole purpose of his jailers was to indoctrinate him against the West — and especially against democratic ideals and the Christian faith. He was cut off from reading anything in English and restricted to communist propaganda in French or Vietnamese.

This daily overdose of the writings of Marx and Engels began to take its toll on him. One of the books he was given to read pictured the communist man as a bird in the ironclad cage of capitalism, throwing itself against the bars of “capitalist oppression” and bloodying itself in the process. Yet still it continued to struggle in its quest for freedom.

Hien began to buckle under the onslaught. Maybe, he thought, I have been lied to. Maybe God does not exist. Maybe my whole life has been governed by lies. Maybe the West has deceived me. The more he thought, the more he moved toward a decision. Finally, he made up his mind. He determined that when he awakened the next day, he would not pray anymore or ever think of his Christian faith again.

The next morning, he was assigned to clean the latrines of the prison. It was the most dreaded chore, shunned by everyone, and so with much distress he began the awful task. As he cleaned out a tin can filled to overflowing with toilet paper, his eye caught what he thought was English printed on one piece of paper. He hurriedly washed it off and slipped it into his hip pocket, planning to read it at night. Not having seen anything in English for such a long time, he anxiously waited for a free moment.

Under the mosquito net that night after his roommates had fallen asleep, he pulled out a small flashlight and shinning it on the damp piece of paper he read at the top corner, “Romans, Chapter 8.” Literally trembling with shock, he began to read:

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose…. What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all- how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?…

.…Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword?… No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Rom. 8:28, 31, 32, 35, 37-39)

Hien wept. He knew his Bible, and he had not seen one for so long. Not only that, he knew there was not a more relevant passage of conviction and strength for one on the verge of surrendering to the threat of evil. He cried out to God, asking for forgiveness, for this was to have been the first day in years that he had determined not to pray. Evidently the Lord had other plans.

The next day, Hien asked the camp commander if he could clean the latrine again. He continued with this chore on a regular basis, because he had discovered that some official in the camp was using a Bible as toilet paper. Each day Hien picked up a portion of Scripture and cleaned it off, and added it to his nightly devotional reading. In this way he retrieved a significant portion of the Bible.

The day came when, through an equally providential set of circumstances, Hien was released. He promptly began to make plans to escape from the country. After several unsuccessful attempts he began again to build a boat in secret. About fifty-three other people planned to escape with him, and Hien was taking the lead.

All was going according to plan until a short while before the date of their departure when four Vietcong knocked on Hien’s door. When he opened it, they accosted him and said they had heard he was trying to escape. “Is it true?” they demanded.

Hien immediately denied it and went on to distract them with some concocted story to explain his activities. Apparently convinced, they reluctantly left.

Hien was relieved but very disappointed with himself. “Here I go again, Lord, trying to manipulate my own destiny, too unteachable in my spirit to really believe that You can lead me past any obstacle.” He made a promise to God, fervently hoping that the Lord would not take him up on it. He prayed that if the Vietcong were to come back again, he would tell them the truth.

Resting in the comfort of that impossibility, he was thoroughly shaken when only a few hours before they were to set sail the four men stood at his door once more. “We have our sources, and we know you are trying to escape. Is it true?”

Hien resignedly gave the answer, “Yes, I am with fifty-three others. Are you going to imprison me again?” There was a pronounced pause. And then they leaned forward and whispered, “No. We want to escape with you!”

In an utterly incredible escape plan, all fifty-eight of them found themselves on the high seas, suddenly engulfed by a violent storm. Hien fell with his face in his hands, crying out to God, “Did You bring us here to die?”

As he concluded his story, he said, “Brother Ravi, those four Vietcong were all fishermen who were quite skilled at handling a boat, and if it were not for the sailing ability of those four Vietcong, we would have not made it.”

They arrived safely in Thailand, and years later Hien arrived on American soil where today he is a businessman- forever grateful for America and praying that she would open her heart as a nation to Christ.